Question by : please help mee and my mom? (read info)?
i think my mom is going a little too crazy these days. She goes to the casino and doesn’t come back until 6 am sometimes on weekdays or weekends, and today she got mad at me for not studying for math test i dont even have have tomorrow.. i have a diff. test and she wouldn’t let me study for the tests i have tomorrow until now, which is really late -.- i think she is secretly dating some person in the hotels or something cuz she said “i WILL go out with some1 and send u to foster care if u don’t go to your math tutor” D: and i want to live with her happily instead of having to be separated from her
ps she is on the computer 24/7. should i take off a cord from the internet dsl and trash it into the dump or something? cuz im too scared to live like this
i have a dad but they were divorced when i was born
Answer by Donya Sorenson
First of all,it sounds like mom may be trying to find stress relief.We all do it differently.Have you tried to talk to your mom when she’s calm and settled down?As for what she does that doesn’t involve you,isn’t really your concern,unless she is abusive or harming you in some way.Try talking to a trusted adult in your life.Tell them your concerns and have them talk to your mom,if you can’t.Mom’s are human too,we aren’t perfect and sometimes we need help and understanding too.You need to try to let her know you love her and don’t want to be away from her.She may not realize that she is scaring you.She may just be trying to get her point across forcefully.Try talking to her or writing her a letter.Things won’t change ,if you don’t let the problem be known.Good luck.